Some of you have children at all ages and stages of life. From babies to toddlers. Than school aged to teenagers. Finally, young adults. For the most part, you live your busy lives day in and day out, doing what you always do. The same routine every day. A few small things might change. But mostly it’s the same routine day in and day out. Ever feel like you’re on autopilot?

This thought came to me the other day while talking to my youngest daughter. See, she is 12 now, along with her twin brother, who is also 12. Lately, they’ve been asking questions about their life when they were younger, and I tell them the stories and show them the pictures. 

When I go back to look at the pictures of my children when they were young, I think, “Where has the time gone?” The emotions well up, and I feel like I’ve missed out on their life. Like it all flashed by. The one that hit me the most is my oldest daughter. 

She is now 20 and away at college. I am proud of her for growing up into a beautiful, smart young lady. I can’t help but miss her, though. 

I scroll through my phone’s gallery, looking at some of the pictures I took from my younger days. Some of them were taken by my oldest child when she was young. 

Then I look at them all now. How grown up they all look, and either are or will be. “Was I on autopilot for some of their lives and just forgot what we did?” “How did they go from being such young, cute toddlers to beautiful preteens and a young adult?"

Have you thought that about your kids? Have you looked back and reflected on the lives you lived? Is this just a me thing?

I tell you, friends, take the time now to get the hugs and kisses. Take the time now to be present in your kids’ lives. I know life gets hectic and busy, but don’t go into autopilot mode. Make the memories that are worth making. Take lots of pictures. Spend as much time as you can together. The time with your kids as kids is short. 18 years is a short time to make memories with your kids. Be Present. 

Have a good day!!!

Pam Betts